Cranky as Fvck

About a year after I left my ex, I started a 12-week program for abused women.  There were weeks when I sat in that room – looking at those other fourteen women – and thought to myself “I don’t belong here.” Some of the physical abuse stories were horrific.  I had only been physically hurt […]

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The Fox

Lots of new readers – and I needed to remind myself that I used to look ok – so I decided to share how the fox became part of my persona.  Welcome!  Some of you I haven’t chatted with in years, and it is truly lovely to reconnect. You can clearly see my love of […]

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Visiting Hours

Listen to this song as you read my blog today … My Heart Will Go On I had wanted to post a positive upbeat blog entry chronicling my 10-day journey through Emerg and being admitted to the Oncology Ward in Lakeridge Health Oshawa, but the words were too … clinical.  And that shouldn’t be happening […]

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The Road to Discovery

(that’s me on the right next to Sue, the real redhead and Fran) Getting diagnosed with breast cancer was an odyssey. Find lump. Go to Doctor. Get diagnosed.  That took over two months.  I handled it with grace one day and the next …  I completely lost my shit.  I railed at life, the Universe […]

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Pink Dot Detour

Really, this detour started about six months ago.  Or maybe a year or two ago. Or seven.  Who the hell knows?  Maybe I was tapped on the breast right at the beginning.  We will never know.  I go back and forth in my mind wondering how … when … why.  Can I take the liberty […]

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