I made it to 2018

My biggest fear with cancer was to not live long enough to see another snowfall.  But I made it to Winter 2018.  And wiped snow off my car.  Three times in one day!  I wasn’t sure I would make it this far when I had this conversation with myself: Stage IV I died in 2017.  […]

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Time After Time

It was 1995.  I resigned from a very lucrative position at a very secure company on February 6th, which coincidentally was the day I was christened back in 1966.  Later that day, my father told me he was diagnosed with stomach cancer.  I remember receiving the news.  My head swam, my knees buckled beneath me […]

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Me VS Everything

If God wants to bring me to my knees, He knows what to do. A critically ill child. He can do anything to me.  Throw anything at me.  I keep getting knocked down.  I keep getting back up. But don’t touch my kid. I couldn’t handle that.  However, who am I to choose?  Those other […]

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No One Really Cared About Virginity in Egypt

Virginity wasn’t a stigma that came into style until the Roman Empire somewhere around 27BC to 330AD.  The Romans oppressed female sexuality to “protect” the stability and significance of families, social order, their rich coffers, and the state of the nation. They raised the status – and purity – of a Vestal Virgin to an […]

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No Problem

I wasn’t sure if I should write about him … because he isn’t mine to write about.  We broke up almost 3 decades ago after dating and living together for over two years.  He was my first love. We met at work.  I was the youngest of interns – barely 20-something – and was invited […]

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Thanks Chester … I owe you more than one life …

Please.  Make suicide something we can discuss in normal conversation so that no one else has to die by their own hands. #letstalksuicide In the words of my 19-year-old son “This is the first celebrity death that truly affects me personally.” Me too, Kiddo. When I was Numb from the pain, fear and confusion in […]

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